How to Create the Perfect Cottagecore Tea Party

I still remember the first time I scrolled through Pinterest, completely enchanted by the dreamy world of LoveShackFancy. The delicate florals, vintage china, and soft pastels felt like something out of a fairy tale. That was years ago, and ever since, I’ve been hosting tea parties for my girls—adding my own special touches along the way.

If you’ve ever dreamed of hosting a French Cottagecore-inspired tea party, I’ve gathered all my best tips to help you create a truly magical experience.

Setting the Tone: Dressing for the Occasion

What I wear—and what everyone else wears—sets the tone for the entire tea party. Dressing up is part of the experience, and I love seeing my guests in romantic, vintage-inspired pieces that complement the soft elegance of the gathering.

I always reach for a flowing dress in pastel tones with delicate lace or floral details. LoveShackFancy is my favorite for this, as their dresses embody that effortless, antique charm. If you prefer something a bit more structured, Sézane also offers beautiful, feminine silhouettes with a timeless feel.

Accessories are just as important. A wide-brimmed straw hat tied with a ribbon instantly adds a touch of French country charm, and a pearl necklace or a vintage locket completes the look. Footwear should be comfortable yet elegant—ballet flats are my go-to, and Tieks offers the perfect balance of comfort and style.

For my girls, I love dressing them in soft, vintage-inspired dresses with lace collars or smocking. Adding a simple floral headband or a bow keeps their look sweet and timeless.

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The Tablescape: Creating a Cottagecore Dream

The table is the heart of the tea party, and I always keep my setup pastel, simple, and elegant with lace accents. A vintage floral tablecloth or a delicate lace overlay instantly transforms any table into something special. I love layering soft linens with embroidered napkins and hand-picked wildflowers for a natural, effortless touch.

Mismatched china is a must. I’ve spent years collecting vintage teacups and plates from thrift stores and estate sales, and each piece tells its own story. If you’re looking to start your own collection, The RealReal often has stunning antique sets. For a more budget-friendly option, I’ve found beautiful tea sets on Etsy that capture the same timeless charm.

Brass candlesticks with taper candles add warmth and height to the table. I also love placing small bud vases filled with roses, lavender, or baby’s breath along the center. Fresh flowers are essential—they bring life to the table and create the soft, romantic feel that defines a Cottagecore gathering.

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Selecting the Perfect Teas

A well-curated tea selection elevates the experience. I always serve a mix of classic and floral teas to suit different preferences.

• Earl Grey with Lavender – My absolute favorite. The floral notes make it feel extra special, and it pairs beautifully with tea cakes and pastries.

• Chamomile and Mint – Light, refreshing, and perfect for an afternoon tea.

• Rose and Hibiscus – The delicate pink hue is beautiful in glass teacups and adds a subtly sweet floral flavor.

I always serve loose-leaf tea in a vintage teapot with a proper tea strainer. It makes the whole experience feel authentic and refined.

The Menu: Elegant and Simple

I like to keep the menu light, elegant, and easy to eat. Everything should feel delicate and thoughtfully prepared.

• Madeleines and Macarons – The quintessential French tea party treat. I love baking my own madeleines with a hint of lemon, but if I’m short on time, I order macarons from Ladurée.

• Fruit and Cream Tarts – A beautiful addition to any tea party. I use a vanilla bean pastry cream topped with fresh strawberries or blackberries.

• Classic Finger Sandwiches – I always include cucumber and dill, smoked salmon with cream cheese, and egg salad with fresh herbs. A good brioche or sourdough bread makes all the difference.

For an extra touch, I cut sandwiches into heart or flower shapes using cookie cutters. Small details like this make everything feel more intentional and whimsical.

Adding the Final Touches

A tea party should feel immersive, like stepping into a different time. Music, handwritten details, and thoughtful favors make all the difference.

Soft French music playing in the background sets a dreamy atmosphere. I love classic Edith Piaf or instrumental Parisian café music to enhance the mood.

Handwritten place cards on antique-style paper add a personal touch. I enjoy using calligraphy pens to write guests’ names in delicate script.

As a parting gift, I like to give guests small lavender sachets wrapped in muslin bags. They feel old-fashioned and charming, and the scent lingers long after the party ends.

If hosting outdoors, I often string fairy lights or drape ivy along the table to create a magical garden setting.

Creating a Lasting Tradition

A tea party isn’t just about the tea—it’s about creating memories and embracing a slower, more beautiful way of gathering. Over the years, hosting these for my girls has become one of my favorite traditions. It’s a chance to step away from the busyness of life and enjoy something truly special together.

I hope this inspires you to create your own Cottagecore tea party. If you do, I’d love to see how you bring your vision to life—tag me on Pinterest or Instagram so we can share in the magic.

Brooke

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I’m Brooke, a homeschool mom and cottagecore enthusiast dedicated to creating a cozy, sustainable home. My journey into cottagecore is all about savoring life’s simple pleasures, from baking to gardening. I’m passionate about curating unique, sustainable pieces for my shop and sharing tips for a more eco-friendly lifestyle. I can’t wait to share more about the beauty and charm of cottagecore living with you!